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Dear Erin, I'm Getting Divorced. Now What?
I address Tiffani's two questions, "Can I do this?" and "Where do I even start?" on this episode, Dear Erin, I'm Getting Divorced. Now What?
6 Reasons Why Dating Yourself Is Key
Any relationship, including the one with yourself, requires work. If you do the work, the benefits and rewards are abundant. So let's start simple. Let's start with six simple reasons why you should date yourself.
Write It Down
But I trusted the universe. I asked for it; the universe delivered. I would not be where I am today if I hadn't done that exercise and written my goals down.
This is not an isolated incident either. I have several other experiences, situations, and even a list of "my dream man" drafted on August 9th, 2015, in which writing it down has made the dream a reality.
The Female Psyche By Nick
The Fiddly Dicking guys drilled me on my new relationship, the podcast, and fantasy football. They might as well be matchmakers. At the time we scheduled the chat, I was single. They were going to dissect me on the show in an attempt to figure out why. Then, boom, I manifested a man, and we had to flip the script.
The Bait and Switch
Narcissism can often be difficult to pinpoint when emotions are involved, and you're dating someone. The official definition of a narcissist is a person who lacks empathy, acts with entitlement, displays arrogance, and prioritizes themselves above all else.
Sober Curious?
I chatted with Courtney Andersen, Sober Coach and Host of the Sober Vibes Podcast. Courtney made a decision on August 18th, 2012 to change her life. Courtney brought up a very good point. She said as women, we should be excited when we see a man is sober because it means the man chose to do work on himself and possesses discipline.
2021 Coming in Hot
I debated sharing this news as it's early. Like anyone who is just starting a new relationship, you aren't exactly sure where things are going, but authenticity and transparency are part of the foundation in which You're Such a Catch was born. To stay true to my word, here we are; the book is still open. Big things have not only been happening personally but also professionally.
Dating a Narcissist
In this week's episode, I chat with Grace Fraga, comedienne, actress, and author. The beauty of Grace is she is an open book, and she has a way of using self-deprecating humor to discuss the sensitive subject matter.
Grace has been engaged a total of four times. One of her ex-husbands was a narcissist. Grace recalls him gaslighting her in their relationship. She talks about toxic positivity, which essentially makes an excuse for the narcissist's behavior and actions. It's hard for a person in a relationship with someone who has this condition to believe that this is their true self.
Write Your Own Happily Ever After
Introduce a plot twist - this is where Kate begins to write her own happily ever after. If you're single, you'll want to take note of Kate's story, the steps she used to manifest Chad, and this modern-day romance with a surprise ending that sets the platform for new beginnings.
Emojigasm? Yes, please!
Did you know for females, specifically, the most common way to orgasm is through clitoral stimulation? If we're not in touch with our bodies, open about our desires and needs, and able to express those verbally to our partner, we're going to continue living without the O glow. We need the O glow! Why?
Photo Cred: Emojibrator
Dating Sunday
Dating Sunday is the first Sunday after the New Year. It earned its name because it happens to be the day in which those who broke up in December before the holidays, those who were uber holiday focused, and those who set New Year's Resolutions centered around finding love take the plunge and download an online dating app.
New Year’s Special: Virtual Speed Dating Debrief
Jess, Suborno, and I loved speed dating so much that we wanted to take our speed dating tour across the pond to Manchester, UK. Since Suborno was willing to brave dating in LA, where Jess and I call home, it only felt appropriate that we gave speed dating in his hometown a whirl.