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2021 Coming in Hot
I debated sharing this news as it's early. Like anyone who is just starting a new relationship, you aren't exactly sure where things are going, but authenticity and transparency are part of the foundation in which You're Such a Catch was born. To stay true to my word, here we are; the book is still open. Big things have not only been happening personally but also professionally.
Dating a Narcissist
In this week's episode, I chat with Grace Fraga, comedienne, actress, and author. The beauty of Grace is she is an open book, and she has a way of using self-deprecating humor to discuss the sensitive subject matter.
Grace has been engaged a total of four times. One of her ex-husbands was a narcissist. Grace recalls him gaslighting her in their relationship. She talks about toxic positivity, which essentially makes an excuse for the narcissist's behavior and actions. It's hard for a person in a relationship with someone who has this condition to believe that this is their true self.
Write Your Own Happily Ever After
Introduce a plot twist - this is where Kate begins to write her own happily ever after. If you're single, you'll want to take note of Kate's story, the steps she used to manifest Chad, and this modern-day romance with a surprise ending that sets the platform for new beginnings.
Dating Sunday
Dating Sunday is the first Sunday after the New Year. It earned its name because it happens to be the day in which those who broke up in December before the holidays, those who were uber holiday focused, and those who set New Year's Resolutions centered around finding love take the plunge and download an online dating app.
Virtual Speed Dating
Suborno Ghosh, host of Online Dating Laid Bear, Jess Barndt, Dating Coach at Greater Dater, and I participated in a virtual speed dating event. Read how things went down.
Dating Adventures Drawn Out
If you're currently single and out there in the deep trenches of the dating world, I encourage you to read Alexandra and the Awful, Awkward, No Fun, Truly Bad Dates: A Picture Book Parody for Adults. You'll smile, you'll laugh, and you'll feel comfort knowing Alexandra, Rebekah, and I have all experienced similar situations on the journey to find love.
12 Days of Clare's Season
Parody of the 12 Days of Christmas using Clare Crawley's 12-day journey on season 16 of ABC's The Bachelorette.
Dating Resume
What if we were required to have a dating resume to enter the dating world? In order to be on any online dating platform, you'd have to create a document that included valid contact information and your objective with dating. You'd have to list your skillset, the qualities you bring to the table, maybe some interests, as well as your dating history or experience.
From Ms. To Mrs.
My chat with Michele was so much fun! The girl has a psychic, dabbles in paranormal activity, hosts her Sunday Scaries Show out of a brewery basement that's supposedly haunted, and has probably been on more bad dates than I can count. She's been on so many bad dates she memorialized them in her book: Suddenly Single Modern Tales of Fairy Fails.
Platonic Friendships
There’s a reason why cross-sex friendships tend to make a significant other feel jealous or threatened. Even if it isn’t said outright, sometimes you can feel the tension in the air or glaring eyeballs burning into your skin. Trust me, I know… I’ve been on both sides of the fence!
Creationship > Relationship
Simone and Brendon made a conscious decision daily to be in their relationship. Each morning they'd asked themselves, "Is this what we desire today? If the answer was yes, the next question they asked was, "What can we create together?" They habitually followed their routine for eight years until one morning, the answer was no.
Let's Face It
Susan came on You're Such A Catch to dive a bit deeper into face reading, specifically with online dating. Susan reads my face, yet again, this time breaking down what type of man I should be pursuing. Susan also shares some tips and tricks on dating during the pandemic with our new favorite accessory, the face mask.