Society teaches us to do-have-be, which is a masculine approach. The powerful paradigm shift of embracing your feminine allows you to follow the be-do-have model. This lends to stepping into your own power and embodying what you wish to attract.

As we keep thinking the same thoughts, performing the same actions, and living the same experiences that produce the same emotions, we're creating the same reality. To change the mind, we have to make the brain work in new sequences, patterns, and combinations.

You waited patiently to meet your person. You're now in a relationship; how do you ensure the success of your relationship? Grab your apron because this week, I'm cooking up a successful relationship with these key ingredients: Trust, Communication, Passion & Compatibility, Respect, Healthy Conflict Resolution, Sense of Humor, Team mentality

I address Tiffani's two questions, "Can I do this?" and "Where do I even start?" on this episode, Dear Erin, I'm Getting Divorced. Now What?

Any relationship, including the one with yourself, requires work. If you do the work, the benefits and rewards are abundant. So let's start simple. Let's start with six simple reasons why you should date yourself.

But I trusted the universe. I asked for it; the universe delivered. I would not be where I am today if I hadn't done that exercise and written my goals down.

This is not an isolated incident either. I have several other experiences, situations, and even a list of "my dream man" drafted on August 9th, 2015, in which writing it down has made the dream a reality.

I chatted with Courtney Andersen, Sober Coach and Host of the Sober Vibes Podcast. Courtney made a decision on August 18th, 2012 to change her life. Courtney brought up a very good point. She said as women, we should be excited when we see a man is sober because it means the man chose to do work on himself and possesses discipline.

I debated sharing this news as it's early. Like anyone who is just starting a new relationship, you aren't exactly sure where things are going, but authenticity and transparency are part of the foundation in which You're Such a Catch was born. To stay true to my word, here we are; the book is still open. Big things have not only been happening personally but also professionally.

In this week's episode, I chat with Grace Fraga, comedienne, actress, and author. The beauty of Grace is she is an open book, and she has a way of using self-deprecating humor to discuss the sensitive subject matter.

Grace has been engaged a total of four times. One of her ex-husbands was a narcissist. Grace recalls him gaslighting her in their relationship. She talks about toxic positivity, which essentially makes an excuse for the narcissist's behavior and actions. It's hard for a person in a relationship with someone who has this condition to believe that this is their true self.

Introduce a plot twist - this is where Kate begins to write her own happily ever after. If you're single, you'll want to take note of Kate's story, the steps she used to manifest Chad, and this modern-day romance with a surprise ending that sets the platform for new beginnings.

Are you ready to start manifesting your wildest dreams? Download these free goal-setting worksheets and start crushing it! What are you waiting for? You have goals to achieve in 2021!

If you're currently single and out there in the deep trenches of the dating world, I encourage you to read Alexandra and the Awful, Awkward, No Fun, Truly Bad Dates: A Picture Book Parody for Adults.  You'll smile, you'll laugh, and you'll feel comfort knowing Alexandra, Rebekah, and I have all experienced similar situations on the journey to find love.